The spotlight effect is the phenomenon in which people overestimate the amount of attention that others are paying to their appearance, behavior, and actions. This means that people often think that others are noticing and judging them more than they actually are. For example, if someone trips and falls in public, they may think that everyone around them is watching and judging them, when in reality, most people probably didn’t even notice.
The spotlight effect can cause people to feel self-conscious and anxious in social situations, and can lead them to overestimate the importance of their own actions and appearance. It can also cause people to overestimate the amount of agreement among others, leading them to assume that everyone is thinking or feeling the same way that they are. To avoid the spotlight effect, it is important to recognize that other people are not always paying as much attention to us as we might think.